never-obey:

sheshouldvebeena-son:

I am fucking terrified of admitting to everyone that I’m detransitioning and leaning towards radical feminism. All my friends will disown me, the part of my family that supported my transition will judge me…
Anyway, even if I don’t tell them now about it, I will still work in my process of detransition. I need to do this for myself.

It’s really concerning that people judge you for detransitioning.

Isn’t transitioning supposed to be a treatment for dysphoria?? Detransitioning means that you found a way to accept your body without more surgery/hormones. That’s something to celebrate!

If you lose friends because of this it means that you were in a cult like group.

I mean ever seen people who have an illness or disorder disown other people because they found a way to get rid of it??? 

As if someone is told they have cancer and that they must have radical surgery, but then unexpectedly goes into remission. The people in the support system that was organized because of the impending surgery start condemning them, and then the whole group abandons the cancer patient who actually no longer needs such radical treatment.