My children wouldn’t feel the need to “identify” as anything other than themselves because they understand that how they look and what they wear doesn’t change anything. They are smart enough to know that sex can’t be changed and that nothing is “feminine” or “masculine”.
pizzaback they abuse their kids just like fundamentalist christians, just check out blogs like 4thwavenow.
they just deny their child’s identity until they’re so fucked up they kill themselves.
This is literally a common idea so don’t try and paint it under your ~radical~ feminism guise that gets us murdered
Basically the same shit conservative christian republican parents do lmao
What’s that? Assure my children that they don’t have to “identify” as a made up thing in order to appreciate something that was intended for one part of that made up thing??
Did you know that my conservative christian father said exactly the same shit, putting Identify in quotation marks, coming up with bullshit theories as to why I’m trans and when that didn’t stop me, when all his theorizing didn’t change what I needed and I got pretty close to killing myself, he disowned me?
That’s what you are. That’s the sort of abuser you are. What are you going to do when parroting second wave doesn’t actually stop your children from doing anything? Hm?
What are you going to do when your kids stop telling you how they feel about anything because they know you’ll just dismiss it? What will you do when they get more and more depressed and start to act like they no longer have a future?
What are you going to do then? Don’t become a parent. For the sake of your kids, just don’t.
For the sake of children I already have, don’t become a parent…GOT IT!!
Oh this is bad. I really hope they’re cis. So you don’t abuse the shit out of them.
My kids are literally the most level headed and logical children I’ve ever met and these asshats think I’m abusing them. Unfortunately, the only people who have ever hurt them were male.
If they’re trans you’re abusing them.
And since abusers refuse to see what they are, I truly hope these kids are cis for their sake.
“level headed and logical” people can’t be trans apparently
real shocker from a terf who has no qualms with child abuse
My child abusing father always considered me “level headed and logical” before I finally revealed I was trans to him and he disowned me :)
Rafem 2nd wave parentjng is never parenting.
Are you a mother? No? You don’t know what you’re talking about then.
So a common narrative in these online transgender communities is that if anyone questions a kid’s motives or *suggest* they aren’t actually trans or need surgery/hormones or do anything but be yourself…etc..they are actually advised to THREATEN WITH SUICIDE as a response in order to scare their parents/families into supporting transition.
http://transgenderreality.com/2015/04/17/just-tell-her-to-shut-the-fuck-up/
“If you don’t accept me and allow me to do this, I will kill myself” IS VERBATIM what these kids write in their “coming out” letters. Why? because assholes like this tell them that if they don’t do it, they’ll WANT to kill themselves. It’s like this never ending cycle where no one actually has any real answer to these issues but suicide is romanticized in order to not take “no” for an answer. News flash, suicide doesn’t make someone right. It doesn’t automatically mean they were abused. It doesn’t mean anyone murdered them. Yeah, it sucks that people kill themselves, but that doesn’t make them heros.
And if you took 2 seconds to see what the supporters of transition are saying, you’ll see that it’s not the parents fault their kids are taking such permanent measures to deal with their problems. If anything this whole trope of “if you don’t let your kids be trans they are going to kill themselves” is only promoting suicide and is not only emotionally abusive and manipulative to children but abusive to parents who aren’t trying to bury their kids but don’t want to support plastic surgery or puberty blockers either. Stop teaching kids to adopt dangerous ultimatums to a problem solved by education.
All the rebloggers accusing a mother they don’t even know of “abuse” would do well to step back and read some posts in this ^^ website. It calls into serious question who is actually harming gender nonconfoming children. But would you all rather just keep throwing shit?