Anonymous asked:
Can I randomly ask how is your daughter doing, if you'd like to disclose that? I came here from someone who said you were anti-trans (which obviously you're not), and I've become really engrossed with the things you post. And as a female who isn't really sure of her gender-identity, I'm curious of your almost-FtM-teen. Does she still feel masculine? Is she more gender-neutral? Is she doing okay? You seem like such a loving and caring mother, btw! ♡
You’re kind to ask. And you are actually asking, instead of assuming the worst like so many who don’t even bother to read what I’ve written but think they know best for some stranger’s kid.
I don’t want to divulge much online for obvious reasons, but overall she is taking her time making decisions. She is starting something new and interesting this spring, a physical activity she’s never done before, and she reports it is making her feel more grounded and happy. She is spending less time online than previously, and she actually feels relieved about that. I’ve seen advice from some of the detransitioned women I follow that physical pursuits can really help some girls get in touch with and feel good about themselves.
