In a study of pre-pubertal male and female children with gender dysphoria followed-up approximately 10 years later, only 27 percent of children with gender dysphoria remained gender dysphoric at follow-up [10]. Of those individuals who no longer expressed gender dysphoria at follow-up, a significant portion (all female and half the male participants) expressed a non-heterosexual sexual orientation [9]. Thus, gender concerns in neurotypical children prior to puberty may represent a developmental process related to both gender and sexuality for many individuals. 

…Facilitating an exploration of sexuality seems especially pertinent given recent findings that most children with gender-related concerns eventually identify with their natal gender following puberty and frequently adopt homosexual or bisexual identities [19]. It is possible that individuals with ASD may experience similar trajectories in their gender narratives, but potentially follow a different timeline than normally developing individuals owing to reduced social interaction and fewer opportunities to explore their sexual identity.”

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While this article is specifically about autism and gender identity, it cites multiple research studies that confirm, once again, that MOST children who question their gender in childhood end up as gay or bisexual if left alone. Also, socially immature/isolated kids, or kids with ASD, probably need even longer to figure out who they are, which makes a good argument that dysphoric adolescents and even young adults with social anxiety or other similar issues should not start medical transition, as they too often do.

On April 8, 2015 the New York Times reported that President Obama has called for an “end to conversion therapy for gay and transgender youth.”

Somebody explain to me, please: If most children–especially girls–resolve gender dysphoria and grow up to be non-heterosexual adults (and study after study corroborates this finding), how is childhood “gender reassignment” not proactive conversion therapy to prevent adult homosexuality

Given these findings, why do doctors, psychologists–and increasingly, compliant parents–assign gender non-conforming children as trans until proven otherwise?

And can it even be “proven otherwise” if they spend their entire childhoods  being told, and treated as if, they are actually the opposite sex?

Your thoughts, President Obama?

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throughalleternity asked:

right now. But something that's completely reversible is using the name and pronouns that your child wants. Maybe you're already doing this, and that's great! If not, this would be a good chance for your child to see if it feels right. Basically(2/?)

4thwavenow answered:

A “male” name is no problem. Wearing “men’s clothes” (I’ve often worn “men’s clothes” my entire adult life, having imbibed in the 70s-80s the then-radical-why-did-we-go-backwards-in-the-2000s idea that a WOman can wear anything she wants) is cool. But the pronoun thing feels like a slippery slope. I don’t think a person with two x chromosomes and a scientifically-verifiable female body is a “he” or a “him.” Transition is a conveyer belt, and certain things (like being called “he”) seem to me like they would increase dysphoria. Let me say I don’t doubt for a minute that the feeling and idea of dysphoria are real. I don’t question a person’s feelings. What I question is what to DO with that feeling.

sinbadism:

they would only increase dysphoria if the child felt dysphoric about those pronouns. actually use their preferred pronouns and you’ll see if they feel dysphoria or not.


Being called “he” would increase and validate the feeling/idea that she, as a biological female, is “in the wrong body.” It’s self-fulfilling. Dissociation from objective reality is only encouraged by the trans paradigm. With any other mental health diagnosis, dissociation is considered something to treat, not validate. People with body dysmorphic disorder (a different diagnosis) want to amputate healthy body parts, but psychologists and surgeons are not rushing to support that desire.

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Anonymous asked:

I'm a 21 year old lesbian who has watched a number of her friends declare themselves to be 'genderqueer' or ftm rather than the seemingly dirty word of lesbian or even woman. I'm gnc and constantly asked what my preferred pronouns are. When I proudly say SHE it is met with derision and a sneer as if I'll soon grow out of it. This new attack on womanhood is frightening. Thank you for creating this blog and posting the truth.

4thwavenow answered:

Keep the faith. It gives me hope and courage just hearing from young women like you. I recommend immersing yourself in some of the lesbian feminist literature and music from the Second Wave: Meg Christian, Cris Williamson, Teresa Trull, and many others. I look forward to more out lesbian performers as we move out of Peak Trans.

sinbadism:

stop trying to encourage  trans men/non-women to be in the closet and not transition. that’s fucking shitty to women like me who would rather not be in lesbian spaces full of self-hating non-lesbians

See, I don’t consider it a closet, and I’m not going to stop offering my opinions. I’m on Tumblr because I feel voices like mine have been silenced: thoughtful, caring, progressive-liberal parents who feel cowed into submission by the much louder voices issuing from the dominant trans paradigm. 

I don’t think anyone should have to be in a lesbian space who doesn’t want to be, and i don’t want to see anyone hate themselves. What I am suggesting is more support for and more thought given to other solutions for the very real personal, subjective feeling of gender dysphoria. There are some amazing destransitioners on Tumblr who can address this far better than I can, and I hope they will weigh in here.

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