Parenting advice from a detransitioned woman. 

“For me, I first really discovered F2T transition on the internet.  I made lots of trans friends through the internet.  I learned about F2T “passing guides” on the internet. I bought my first chest binder on the internet. I got lots of positive feedback loops from other transitioning adolescents on the internet (including them saying things like “your parents just don’t understand/don’t support you, you can sue them if they don’t give in” etc).  I saw my first dose of F2T pornography on the internet.  I found a doctor that I could go see to give me hormone treatment on the internet….

“In closing, this trend is going to have a devastating impact on today’s youth about 10 years down the road.  These things are not very well studied, and we are/were their guinea pigs.  Be a role model, be a mentor, but most of all, don’t be afraid to be a parent.  Don’t allow yourself to be bullied into this.  This is your child’s health that is being played with, and your child’s health is not a game - it is life or death.”

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sheshouldvebeena-son:

I am fucking terrified of admitting to everyone that I’m detransitioning and leaning towards radical feminism. All my friends will disown me, the part of my family that supported my transition will judge me…
Anyway, even if I don’t tell them now about it, I will still work in my process of detransition. I need to do this for myself.

What this brave person is going through is so hard, and one more reason why I would like my own child to stop, think, slow down….do you really want to “transition” and have to risk losing so much again if you change your mind? Such courage here.

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mensa-malsano:

Alright Tumblr, I’ve been a lurker for quite some time but it’s time I share part of my own history.

I would be 4.5 years on T today if I hadn’t cut my FTM transition short two years into it and reversed the process.

Why did I do this?

It’s a long story. But I’ll start with my childhood. I had…

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